My Compliments

You remember what I think about RateMDs, right? I hadn't checked my listing for a while, so I took a look recently. Two comments from November made me cringe.

They aren't negative comments . In fact, they're downright flattering. Yet, they make me uncomfortable.

Please don't think this is false modesty. I appreciate a genuine compliment as much as anyone. I want to do a good job for my patients and I enjoy hearing that they've had a positive experience.

But, I live with myself all day and I'm aware of all the times when I don't do a good job. Being impatient with someone's questions (see comment 1/9/07), taking too long to return phone calls... it's a long list. Maybe it's perverse, but compliments often highlight those failings. (Or should I call them "opportunities for improvement"?)

But, hey, if you're planning to compliment me, don't worry that I'll be upset. Just go ahead and flatter me. I'll deal with it.